As I mentioned in my earlier post, "Renewal", one of the things that motivated me to restart this blog was the discovery of the personal finance blogs (like Get Rich Slowly and Free Money Finance) end of the blogosphere. There's a lot of great advice out there. And I figured, I could join the club. So from time to time I will post some suggestions of things to consider when it comes to personal finances and getting your house in order.
Money carries all sorts of meanings for people. As FMF pointed out in this great post on how people sometimes think irrationally about money, we struggle with how to properly stand before it. So much baggage has been placed on top of it, that it is sometimes hard to know how to separate the image from the real. For myself, money has always been about financial stability. I grew up in a household where my father worked crazy hours, 7 days a week, because he knew firsthand how fragile the auto industry was (and still is). An hour that could be worked today for a good wage might not be there tomorrow. In turn, he had been shaped by growing up in the household of a father who had served in the Civilian Conservation Corps during the Great Depression. Needless to say, I don't think it's a shock that money's ability to provide stability is a major motivator for the men of my family.
A happy by-product of that is that I have been naturally frugal most of my life. I can't be thankful enough for that. Which brings me to Law Number 1 of building wealth: spend less than you earn.
I will wait until you stop moaning about my mentioning something so obvious. No one said that personal finance needs to be complicated. Of course, just because the rules are simple, that doesn't mean they are easy to live out. Christianity isn't that complicated at the end of the day: it is the encounter with a Person who responds to your truest needs and so you follow Him. But one need only spend a few minutes looking around or in self-reflection to know that that hasn't been easy for most to live out.
Same goes for finances. I can't tell you the number of people who I meet -- at all cash-flow levels -- that fail to get this Law Number 1. See, this isn't a question of getting it intellectually. Most do. It's not that hard to get. It's about getting it experientially. It's about recognizing that this isn't some abstract rule, but a truth for your life. And then living it.
In coming weeks, I'll of course offer suggestions of things that might help one abide by this Law Number 1. But for now, let's just leave it at the law itself. And here's an important element. It offers you a choice. Unless your income level is incredibly low, you can't look at Law Number 1 and blame others for your situation. It forces one to confront reality again. Do you want to develop wealth? Then what are you doing to make sure you spend less than you earn. We aren't talking yet about how much wealth, etc. We are talking about movement. Are you building wealth, losing wealth, or standing pat? It's partly why I used the phrase "cash-flow" instead of "income" above. Your income is really to give you fuel for a cash-flow that can be positive, neutral or negative.
I know some of you may still be prone to dismiss this post as too simplistic. But if you do and yet you find yourself in a situation where you spend more than you earn, for example, I must prod: what does that really say about how you are facing your situation? Law Number One is a fact. What you do with it is up to you.